I am tired of seeing caring, intelligent, and beautiful women give up their lives for worthless men. I don't understand why this tendency only happens in women. How many men do you know will continue to date a girl after she has ignored him, lied, and even cheated on him. I highly doubt that he is telling his friends, "I know she's a self-centered alcoholic but you don't see the side I do. You don't see the moments that are really sweet, like this one time she got me a cookie. I mean who cares about the time she got drunk and crashed my car into a tree. She can really be sweet." No, that conversation is not going on, believe me. But somehow women can basically have this conversation with their friends or themselves to keep them in a bad relationship. They are magical creatures, they can cry over a guy for two weeks and if he calls to say hi, all is forgiven. These girls go in search of the horrible guy and then have the nerve to complain about men.
It's true, these women do not want a nice guy. Don't believe them when they complain about not being able to find a man. It's all lies. They are not attracted to anyone worthwhile. The nicest, cutest, smartest guy can show up at their door with flowers and they will find something wrong with him. But find her a guy who dropped out of community college due to, too much time spent at the other end of a bong, and she'll jump at the chance of dating a not so attractive, looser. Throw in a DUI and a mean spirit and you'll have her dream man. Or worse they like the painted image of a wealthy, well dressed, slime ball that even a child would know not to trust. They see his fancy car, nice clothes, and ability to smooth talk as a sign of princely qualities. The image they see standing in front of them as their dream man, possessing everything they could possible want, a prince in waiting. They can overlook the fact that he is manipulative and self-centered. In fact they won't even see that part. The worst part is that they find the same guy over and over again.
It is as though their brain is programmed to find the biggest asshole and give themselves to them until they are shell of their formal self. They will give up friends, family, and even their self-respect for this person who gives them nothing. Maybe its because they don't think enough of themselves to find someone who is actually good for them, maybe they want to save the guy from himself, maybe they're just crazy.
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